OurTime Reviews

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Pay, then pay more.
April 14, 2024
I would give zero stars, if possible. As a premium member, you receive very few actual matches and the ones appearing to be matches are more often than not unpaid members. That means if you send a message, they can't return it. Of course, you can "pay" to have messages sent by unpaid members. In addition, I'm certain my profile was not shown to many potential matches. How do I know? Because of OurTime's 'boost' feature which asks you to pay to have your profile put front and center. That is in addition to the premium membership fee. All-in-all a big scam unless you're willing to spend a lot more. One other thing, if you choose the unpaid membership, you'll receive many 'likes' and maybe a couple messages. However, if you do pay for premium membership to see those potential matches, it's hit or miss if they reply which suggests the company entices the unpaid member to hook them. Don't waste your money, OurTime is a scam!

Repeat Scammer
March 2, 2024
I have not been on this site long, but found it to be full of catfishers. One particular associates with a Petrochemical company. Profile name Stu, then Sean Hakon, now he is on the site as Rodney. Changes age and locations. Wants to communicate by text and email.

The high cost of finding a date.
November 5, 2023

Ourtime charges you for services they don’t give. They freeze your account and you can’t sign in to use what you’ve prepaid for. They fake your matches and a lot of the pictures of potential matches look like serial killers.

You simply can not get any real person on the phone and forget about texting or e-mailing a request for help—they charge for that too! I simply want out. They are not getting any more money from me.

noncommunicative - denial of service
October 12, 2023

Ourtime kicked me off the site without following the procedure they told me they were going to follow

i got an email claiming i was married and not separated. The email threatened that if I did not reply and claim otherwise within 7 days that I would be kicked off the site. So i replied and assured them i am separated. i have thousands and thousands of dollars of bills as evidence of divorce procedings.

I was immediately kicked off the site after my reply. I think it was all automated. There was no dialogue.

So they took my money. I had paid quite a bit. And then they cut off my service without a conversation. There is nothing being offered as a refund

I have not gotten an email clearly stating the reason I was kicked Off

If someone will fix this mistake, i am willing to update or delete this review

At this point, I have to give OurTime the BuyerBeware badge of dishonor. Not so much for their policies or for kicking me out but for communicating so poorly about it. At this point, the policy is not clear to me and the reason I got the boot is not clear to me.


If you are a guy about age 55 hoping to date a woman between 40 and 54, this site doesnt really work. Most women are 60 and up. Almost none are in their 40s. Few are 50-55. So for guys, you might like this site when you are 65.

A Scam to Seniors
October 11, 2023
The biggest scam out there. They don't allow you to cancel they keep charging you and then there is no one to talk to about the issue. They keep sending you back to open yet another account. I had to go to the fraud department of my bank to fight them.

Waste of time.
September 8, 2023

Doesn’t work half the time.

They email your daily matches. If you click on one, it says you’ve already viewed today’s suggestions.

And you can’t contact them!

KarenA December 04, 2023

In the last fortnight l have only been able to get onto the site for possibly an hour! ok at first but shocking a few weeks in .

September 6, 2023

Scam! Nothing on there is real!

Our Time users are mostly fake
August 10, 2023

My take on the women at Our Time is they are pretty much on the site for validation. They almost never respond to a message, even after they send you a "like" on you profile. They definitely are not there to date or seek a potential relationship partner. Men,.spend your time and money enjoying a good meal or a wine tasting. Our Time is a waste of time.

Waste of time and money
June 8, 2023
Waste of money. Sooooo many fake profiles and scammers, limited viewing and options and must pay more money for any added options. Don't waste your time or money.

Shady Business with shady profiles
January 1, 2023

If you are an honest person, set up your profile to the best that can describe who you are with profile picture of who you are now and not what you were 20 years ago, you will find an absolute garbage dump of profiles with no pics, pics of cats and dogs, flowers or a picture that says "please request a picture" When you do ask for simple verification of this person who has no information in their bio because they messaged you out of the blue, and ask for a picture from them, you never get one. Ripe for scam artists, car jackers, thieves and other forms of victimization which Ourtime seems to endorse because there is obviously no moderation of said accounts.

Even though they say you can cancel your account/refund, there is no convenient way to do so unless you click on the "Do not renew my account" link which in itself is shifty because you cannot remove your payment information.

Search Features are Not That Good
December 15, 2022

Two seemingly simple features of OurTime that I find totally unacceptable are:

1) You can search with a Filter of Body Type, but whenever I look at the profiles that are generated, NONE of them display this criteria, unless I'm missing something.

2) The other very annoying search weakness is Age. I can set an age range as a Search Filter, but the profiles that are displayed with the users main picture, their Age is NOT shown. Therefore, I have to open every darn one of them to find out how old they are....and extreme waste of my time!

May 13, 2022

Terrible, waste of time, full of scammers, fake profile, non stop hard sell advertisements - AVOID OUR TIME!

David December 10, 2022

Four days after joining this site and paying for a month, I received a flood of "messages" from "members" within an hour one day, then had everything blocked and my account was virtually cancelled without explanation. The company has not responded to 2 emails

Chuck October 03, 2023

I paid for a year and got blocked after I reported a scammer. Now they do not respond to emails at all. The site is really glitchy anyway. I'd never join this site again and Match is a sister site so maybe there's been a change in the business model that ruins the site. I had to dispute the payment to a year on Match to get my money back after they simply ignored my login information. There is no way to even try to reset your password to see if that is a problem. Stay away from these two sites!!!!

Let me add another One Star review.
October 14, 2019

Went for the one month special. Had 5-6 "Flirts" from supposed people interested in meeting me. After a few email exchanges I suggested we talk over the phone, instead of just emails. Never heard from any of them again. Perhaps one, maybe two changed their minds? All five or six, no way.

This is just a scam to get you to renew your membership. I especially liked the fake Susan. She was one of the 5-6 people who flirted, and we exchanged numerous emails. She also was never to be heard from again once I suggested a conversation. Now, My membership expires in a week, and guess who likes my profile??? Same Susan. What a scam. Save your money.

Scammers and losers
February 14, 2019

I have been on this site off and on for a few years now and find it full of scammers and losers. It seems the only thing the men are looking for is sex! I have had the misfortune of meeting a closet alcoholic, a separate functioning alcoholic, a sex addict, an insecure wimp, a hoarder, two widowers that need to move to the graveyard with their dead wives, and a couple of complete scammers with fake profiles. This site is getting worse and worse.

Thank goodness, I am very aware and hyper alert and kicked these jerks to the curb rapidly. I urge anyone that meets a person on this site to do some serious background checking as soon as you learn their names. There is a boatload if information on the Web about people. Just be diligent, dig and dig, find a thread and pull it. You will see the ball of yarn unwind quickly.

Be very careful, though, because these people may appear wonderful on paper only to be losers and/or liars in person. Never ever meet them anywhere but a very public place. I have found that many of the men will lie about their age by about 10 years so watch out for that too. It is a real shame because there are some of us women out here that are decent, attractive, truthful ladies looking for a decent man.

I am beginning to think there are none of these kinds of men out there. I do not recommend online dating to anyone! I would rather be alone than stuck with a pervert, liar, or scam artist. Life is too short for this garbage.

December 17, 2018
I have been on Our Time.com for a couple of years now. I have met a couple of men thru it and am in touch with a couple now. ONLY PROBLEM IS...everytime I try to call up OurTime I get a site for our Time.co.u.k. and it tells me that my password isn't right....it is NOT the same site that I have been using..I believe it's an imposter site. Please HELP.

Still Sucks
August 4, 2018
Ourtime should change their name to No Time~!

March 14, 2018

i see that i am not the only one with complaints. i was knock off this this site cause some one complaint that i was rude;; i think i even know which one it was. she got rude with me and all i sad was ''you must be FAT'' that is no reason to take you off the site and keep your money.

Most of the women on our time are RUDE and do put up old picture's so when you meet them they won't look like their picture's REALLY'' i have been on and off this site for 5 years and its really gotten BAD '' and now they send you picture's of men on the site'' that is SICK'' JOHN HALL''

Save your money and go to a nice bar instead!
May 7, 2017

In a nutshell the site just plain SUCKS!

1. Like every other "dating" site there is NO way to filter by race, weight, or other critical, personal requirements.

2. They constantly send you "matches" that you wouldn't date if someone paid you to go out with them!

3. The women on it (if they are indeed real) refuse to communicate with you even when THEY throw you a "flirt" or 'like". So why are hey there?

4. Like all the other sites OurTime sends out stupid, unwanted messages to the people YOU contact, saying stupid things like: "Mr Right likes you profile". I guess someone at OurTime thinks we aren't capable of communicating without them?

5. And the photos! What a joke!! 60 and 70 year-old women are posting photos of themselves that are 40 and 50 years old!! Or worse yet, profiles with no photo at all!! GIVE ME A BREAK - WILL YA'? Then there's the photos of the grand kids, pets and the all-to-familiar photos of women at their favorite vacation spots!!!

6. Then there is the occasional MAN who OurTime sends me as a "match"!!! Yeah? I don't think so!!

In the 4 months I was on this stupid website I had ONE date! I met her for dinner at a popular steak joint 60 miles for my house, with a dozen roses ($57) in my hand. The minute she got out of her car she apologized for the fact that her OurTime photo was 12 years old and that she had gained about 25 pounds!!

During dinner she threw the BIG bomb on me, by revealing that she has no interest in the 6 or 7 Country songs I emailed her, that her 2 "daughters" are homosexuals, and that H#1 wears a rubber penis and is in the process of having a sex change, while H2 is bi-sexual, cuts herself up with razor blades and is as skinny as a rail, because she is anorexic!!!!

But wait - there's MORE!!! Dreamboat Gina has an MBA in marketing, a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree in graphic arts, owns a $285,000 house, and works as a web administrator at a LUTHERAN CHURCH!!! WHAT??? Yep - it's all true!

Amen and hallelujah!!!!

So with a freight train full of baggage like that, I dropped her like a hot rock!!!

KATHRYN TEEL June 01, 2017

Yikes! I was thinking of creating an account but wanted to read some reviews first. Thank you I think I'll pass on Our Time!

BadTime January 01, 2018

Everyone should pass on Our Time. I cancelled my auto renewal but they renewed me anyway and refused to give back my fee. Customer service does nothing

Chuck October 03, 2023

Same here

April 25, 2017
When you get nothing but scammers something is wrong, I will agree they don't remove your information. You are not secure on that site. More need to file a complaint, and I will agree to ban them. They like taking your money but you have to fight to get it back when you don't use their services. I did get mine back. Keep on them people.

Chuck October 03, 2023

I filed some reports on scammers and was immediately blocked from my account after paying for a year Premium and only using it for a few days.

Ripped off from the start!
December 1, 2016

If there was a zero star I would give it. When you join for "free," what they really mean is you have to pay to use the site. Fine. They then list three options for paid membership: six months, three months, or one month.

However, when you click on "continue" to get to the payment page, there is no pricing selection from which to choose. I made payment via PayPal, because I assumed, from my past PayPal experiences, that I would be taken to a final check-out screen where the price would be listed and I could either decline the transaction or accept it and make the payment. Not so.

Instead of an opportunity to accept and proceed or decline and exit, the only option was "Connect Me!" which is a feature of the site by which you can be connected via text message with the site as a filter.

Imagine my surprise when instead of paying for one month at $29.05 I discovered I had paid for $119.00 and change. OUTRAGEOUS!!! I immediately contacted "customer care," (an oxymoron if I ever heard one), to tell them to cancel immediately and refund my card.

I also notified PayPal to dispute the charge, and next, if the charge posts to my credit card account, I will be contacting my bank to dispute it. At NO TIME was I ever informed what the price for this "service" would be; I had clicked on 'one month and ended up being charged for six.

What a reprehensible way to run a business. These people should be tarred and feathered for such bad business practices.. Which reminds me: next stop, BBB.org.