OurTime Reviews

I was a member of match, and saw the tickler on my match use to click to see "our time". What I didn't know was, as soon as I clicked there, it created a profile for me without my even ok'ing it at all, it just created it, copying my photos, and profile into Our Time. Since I have not joined ourtime, I cannot say I like it or not, but I gave 1 star because they abused my client privilege and my right to CHOOSE to be a member. That's the same as sending you spam without you consenting to receiving email.

Of course, I am not a member, and I can delete my profile. But my point is, I should have been ASKED before they created a profile for me. Just because I look, doesn't mean I am ready to create a profile while I still have an active match account, which incidentally hasn't done to much for me as usual. It's the same old song and dance, they get your money, and there are few reasonable people of the opposite sex to consider anyone short of mr or ms perfect. The more photos they have of themselves, the more likely they are a serial profile poster. Check it next year, they are still here, they never find anyone to meet their excruciating criteria! LOL. Oh, a tip, whenever you join one of these services, ALWAYS pay with Paypal, then as soon as they get their money, go into the transaction receipt and cancel the billing agreement, then they cannot charge you again without your permission. you can't trust them, I was setup to receive a 6 month match guarantee, and it is supposed to be free, yet they ran a transaction through for 1 cent they were testing to see if my billing agreement was still good. be aware of that for match. If you are going to send 5 emails a month and meet the free 6 months, leave billing agreement active, then as soon as it renews for free, CANCEL the subscription at paypal. With our time, I would cancel as soon as they got a cycle payment.

I too, saw their commercial today. Unlike far too many people who goto the web site and sign up right away, I do my homework first.

I check out the complaints pages and read all the reviews written by people who signed up expecting to find someone they might have a future with, only to discover they've been scammed. I'm not the least bit surprised by what I've read so far. Those who create these sites are experts at putting out enticing ads with lots of flash and glamour.

They're even greater experts at taking your money and holding you at bay when you want to opt out.

I'm 66 now and have come to terms with being single again and have been for almost 12 years. They play upon people's fears of being alone when oft times, it's the best thing for you at that time in your life.

Time to focus your attention on you; your wants, needs and desires. Take up a new hobby, go back to school, find yourself and take time to reconnect with the person you used to be. I'm a firm believer that as long as you leave your heart open to all possibilities, love will always find its way in. You just have to exercise some caution.

So don't let this experience sour you into thinking that you'll never find love again or cause you to, in desperation, to leap before you look when you may have met someone.

Take your time in getting to know each other and, if it's meant to be, you'll know without even having to think about it.

Good luck to all of you.

I just joined and am already regretting it. As mentioned in some of the other reviews, the site is horrible if not impossible to access after joining. They keep saying the wrong user name or password. Trying to get this issue resolved. If not, cancelling account. Definitely will not renew for another month.

I did my profile,set up everything. Started getting all these emails saying I got flirts. They said I got replies from people I never even inquired to. They trying hard to get me to upgrade. I learned my lesson from Christian Mingle. Some of them dress their profile impress. You can't stop people of the same sex from contacting you.

I joined being fully aware that there would need to be some weeding out of contacts and such. What I didn't expect was that the company actually charged me $81.93 for a $12.99 membership. The transaction was declined because I don't keep much money in my checking account. I was a bit surprised since I knew there was enough to cover the 6 month fee that I had agreed to. But, I had no idea they were helping themselves to my account. I apparently am not the only one to have had this issue with them.

I've only been on this site for 3 days, and I'm already regretting it. Fortunately, I only signed up for one month.

They allow people from every State to view your profile, and 99% of the people contacting me live in another State. My in-box has been bombarded with notifications, flirts, likes etc. I have to go in 2 times a day just to clean out the "junk mail". I contacted Customer Service, and they told me they don't have any way to limit viewings to people who live in the State you live in, nor do they have any way to limit viewings to people within a certain mileage of the City you live in. If you want to be "exposed" to everybody in the USA, then fine ... but I don't want this. I never would have signed up if I had known about these limitations. Long distance relationships have never worked for me, and I'm certainly not willing to give it another try in my golden years.

Another problem is that I feel like I'm being cyber-stalked. I often get 5-6 messages from the same person on the same day (and multiple persons on the same day), with each message being "more urgent" than the previous one. It's really weirding me out.

I'm going to keep my profile available for maybe another week, and that's only because I did make 2 possible connections with local members.

I have been on your site for weeks now and only people try to contact me are from out of state and most often than not a scam of some sort.Yuo peole should screen people more affectivly ! I will NOT renew my membership!!!!!!!

One evening I was checking on my profile to find that another man's profile had been posted under my user name! I mean his picture and all of his personal information on my profile. Do you know what that means? My information must be on another person's profile and I am being represented as who know's who???

I just joined and am already regretting it. As mentioned in some of the other reviews, the site is difficult, if not impossible to access after joining. They keep saying the wrong user name or password. Also, I extended my time to six months which I regret and will try to cancel tomorrow.

I am starting to believe that the only reason these sites want to attract singles is to take their private info and sell it because they sell you everyting else! There is a way for them to make money without promissing you "free subscription" then trying to sell you a monthly fee to be able to connect. But to do that, tey will have to care about how to make a good difference in your life! This kind of business is almost at the same level with being conned out of money. They take advantage of people's lonliness and their desire to connect and then they black mail you with, either you buy a membership or, if not, you can't e-mail the man that "sent you a flirt". You later discover that it was the actual site that sent you that e-mail and that the guy in NY has no idea where Bakersfield is! It is hard to tell someone not to hope but, just be aware of these worms!

I was intriqued by some of the polished television ads promoting Our Time as a new alternative for mature singles looking for mates. It has turned out to be the biggest disappointment at all and offers much less than any of the more reputable, more established sites, like match.com and eharmony. The same members are the members that are on the other sites and it is apparent that the site does no screening of members, even prior to sending members a match. Many of the site's members are inactive but OurTime keeps their member profiles in the pool so that it appears to have more active members than it does. There is little diversity in their membership pool. Customer Service is the worst that I have seen and basically sends out form e-mails. If you are considering this site, please don't believe the hype or be pulled in by the glossy advertisements. Try the trial, or if you are really tempted by the phony e-mails they send about your matches, buy the one-month membership at most.

I got a message from a "woman" asking me to send her my email address and she would send me more pictures of her. But the system can detect email address and delete your message, then send you a warning. I sent the woman a message then she suddenly disappeared, along with every trace of her. I smelled a rat and was able to cancel my account only to find out that they had registered me with another dating site where I was getting messages that I couldn't see except for sending them more money! Strongly recommend - CANCEL! CANCEL! CANCEL!

I cannot get on this site. It says wrong user name or wrong password. I payed for this site and wish i could get on it .Please help me if you care at all for you customers.

they get your money and you find yourself unable to access acct. you can't even get through to cancel -keep saying wrong user name or password i changed my card so they can't cont. to charge me for services i'm not receiving DO NOT TRUST THESE PEOPLE||||||

Avoid this site like the Black Death. Once someone places you on it, or you select it, you cannot stop it. Their phone number doesn't exist. Just don't do it. Go somewhere else

I was registered with Match.com and have cancelled by account.

I am also trying to cancel out of OurTime.com. Please cancel my profile I do not have an account number other than what I signed into

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