OurTime Reviews

Ourtime charges you for services they don’t give. They freeze your account and you can’t sign in to use what you’ve prepaid for. They fake your matches and a lot of the pictures of potential matches look like serial killers.

You simply can not get any real person on the phone and forget about texting or e-mailing a request for help—they charge for that too! I simply want out. They are not getting any more money from me.

Ourtime kicked me off the site without following the procedure they told me they were going to follow

i got an email claiming i was married and not separated. The email threatened that if I did not reply and claim otherwise within 7 days that I would be kicked off the site. So i replied and assured them i am separated. i have thousands and thousands of dollars of bills as evidence of divorce procedings.

I was immediately kicked off the site after my reply. I think it was all automated. There was no dialogue.

So they took my money. I had paid quite a bit. And then they cut off my service without a conversation. There is nothing being offered as a refund

I have not gotten an email clearly stating the reason I was kicked Off

If someone will fix this mistake, i am willing to update or delete this review

At this point, I have to give OurTime the BuyerBeware badge of dishonor. Not so much for their policies or for kicking me out but for communicating so poorly about it. At this point, the policy is not clear to me and the reason I got the boot is not clear to me.

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If you are a guy about age 55 hoping to date a woman between 40 and 54, this site doesnt really work. Most women are 60 and up. Almost none are in their 40s. Few are 50-55. So for guys, you might like this site when you are 65.

Doesn’t work half the time.

They email your daily matches. If you click on one, it says you’ve already viewed today’s suggestions.

And you can’t contact them!

Scam! Nothing on there is real!

My take on the women at Our Time is they are pretty much on the site for validation. They almost never respond to a message, even after they send you a "like" on you profile. They definitely are not there to date or seek a potential relationship partner. Men,.spend your time and money enjoying a good meal or a wine tasting. Our Time is a waste of time.

If you are an honest person, set up your profile to the best that can describe who you are with profile picture of who you are now and not what you were 20 years ago, you will find an absolute garbage dump of profiles with no pics, pics of cats and dogs, flowers or a picture that says "please request a picture" When you do ask for simple verification of this person who has no information in their bio because they messaged you out of the blue, and ask for a picture from them, you never get one. Ripe for scam artists, car jackers, thieves and other forms of victimization which Ourtime seems to endorse because there is obviously no moderation of said accounts.

Even though they say you can cancel your account/refund, there is no convenient way to do so unless you click on the "Do not renew my account" link which in itself is shifty because you cannot remove your payment information.

Two seemingly simple features of OurTime that I find totally unacceptable are:

1) You can search with a Filter of Body Type, but whenever I look at the profiles that are generated, NONE of them display this criteria, unless I'm missing something.

2) The other very annoying search weakness is Age. I can set an age range as a Search Filter, but the profiles that are displayed with the users main picture, their Age is NOT shown. Therefore, I have to open every darn one of them to find out how old they are....and extreme waste of my time!

Terrible, waste of time, full of scammers, fake profile, non stop hard sell advertisements - AVOID OUR TIME!

Went for the one month special. Had 5-6 "Flirts" from supposed people interested in meeting me. After a few email exchanges I suggested we talk over the phone, instead of just emails. Never heard from any of them again. Perhaps one, maybe two changed their minds? All five or six, no way.

This is just a scam to get you to renew your membership. I especially liked the fake Susan. She was one of the 5-6 people who flirted, and we exchanged numerous emails. She also was never to be heard from again once I suggested a conversation. Now, My membership expires in a week, and guess who likes my profile??? Same Susan. What a scam. Save your money.

I have been on this site off and on for a few years now and find it full of scammers and losers. It seems the only thing the men are looking for is sex! I have had the misfortune of meeting a closet alcoholic, a separate functioning alcoholic, a sex addict, an insecure wimp, a hoarder, two widowers that need to move to the graveyard with their dead wives, and a couple of complete scammers with fake profiles. This site is getting worse and worse.

Thank goodness, I am very aware and hyper alert and kicked these jerks to the curb rapidly. I urge anyone that meets a person on this site to do some serious background checking as soon as you learn their names. There is a boatload if information on the Web about people. Just be diligent, dig and dig, find a thread and pull it. You will see the ball of yarn unwind quickly.

Be very careful, though, because these people may appear wonderful on paper only to be losers and/or liars in person. Never ever meet them anywhere but a very public place. I have found that many of the men will lie about their age by about 10 years so watch out for that too. It is a real shame because there are some of us women out here that are decent, attractive, truthful ladies looking for a decent man.

I am beginning to think there are none of these kinds of men out there. I do not recommend online dating to anyone! I would rather be alone than stuck with a pervert, liar, or scam artist. Life is too short for this garbage.

i see that i am not the only one with complaints. i was knock off this this site cause some one complaint that i was rude;; i think i even know which one it was. she got rude with me and all i sad was ''you must be FAT'' that is no reason to take you off the site and keep your money.

Most of the women on our time are RUDE and do put up old picture's so when you meet them they won't look like their picture's REALLY'' i have been on and off this site for 5 years and its really gotten BAD '' and now they send you picture's of men on the site'' that is SICK'' JOHN HALL''

In a nutshell the site just plain SUCKS!

1. Like every other "dating" site there is NO way to filter by race, weight, or other critical, personal requirements.

2. They constantly send you "matches" that you wouldn't date if someone paid you to go out with them!

3. The women on it (if they are indeed real) refuse to communicate with you even when THEY throw you a "flirt" or 'like". So why are hey there?

4. Like all the other sites OurTime sends out stupid, unwanted messages to the people YOU contact, saying stupid things like: "Mr Right likes you profile". I guess someone at OurTime thinks we aren't capable of communicating without them?

5. And the photos! What a joke!! 60 and 70 year-old women are posting photos of themselves that are 40 and 50 years old!! Or worse yet, profiles with no photo at all!! GIVE ME A BREAK - WILL YA'? Then there's the photos of the grand kids, pets and the all-to-familiar photos of women at their favorite vacation spots!!!

6. Then there is the occasional MAN who OurTime sends me as a "match"!!! Yeah? I don't think so!!

In the 4 months I was on this stupid website I had ONE date! I met her for dinner at a popular steak joint 60 miles for my house, with a dozen roses ($57) in my hand. The minute she got out of her car she apologized for the fact that her OurTime photo was 12 years old and that she had gained about 25 pounds!!

During dinner she threw the BIG bomb on me, by revealing that she has no interest in the 6 or 7 Country songs I emailed her, that her 2 "daughters" are homosexuals, and that H#1 wears a rubber penis and is in the process of having a sex change, while H2 is bi-sexual, cuts herself up with razor blades and is as skinny as a rail, because she is anorexic!!!!

But wait - there's MORE!!! Dreamboat Gina has an MBA in marketing, a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree in graphic arts, owns a $285,000 house, and works as a web administrator at a LUTHERAN CHURCH!!! WHAT??? Yep - it's all true!

Amen and hallelujah!!!!

So with a freight train full of baggage like that, I dropped her like a hot rock!!!

If there was a zero star I would give it. When you join for "free," what they really mean is you have to pay to use the site. Fine. They then list three options for paid membership: six months, three months, or one month.

However, when you click on "continue" to get to the payment page, there is no pricing selection from which to choose. I made payment via PayPal, because I assumed, from my past PayPal experiences, that I would be taken to a final check-out screen where the price would be listed and I could either decline the transaction or accept it and make the payment. Not so.

Instead of an opportunity to accept and proceed or decline and exit, the only option was "Connect Me!" which is a feature of the site by which you can be connected via text message with the site as a filter.

Imagine my surprise when instead of paying for one month at $29.05 I discovered I had paid for $119.00 and change. OUTRAGEOUS!!! I immediately contacted "customer care," (an oxymoron if I ever heard one), to tell them to cancel immediately and refund my card.

I also notified PayPal to dispute the charge, and next, if the charge posts to my credit card account, I will be contacting my bank to dispute it. At NO TIME was I ever informed what the price for this "service" would be; I had clicked on 'one month and ended up being charged for six.

What a reprehensible way to run a business. These people should be tarred and feathered for such bad business practices.. Which reminds me: next stop, BBB.org.