I used to be really determined to marry a lady from this site, but fortunately, having read some opinions about this site I carried out an experiment which convinced me that it is a total scam. Within a year I have established six accounts with approximately the same age but a different background from a high school to a PhD, from a single through divorced to widower, from zero to three children. All my conclusions concerns only women who took interests in my profiles and they are below:
1. I received letters from almost the same set of thousand women or so. “I am looking for an educated person, who likes travelling a lot…” writes a lady to a widower, mechanic with high school education and three children.
2. All the letters from the same lady were the same, apart from the greetings :”Dear (and the proper name) …” No personal relation, no comments on your character, experience or background. Funny, but I didn’t place any photos and she writes:: “I like your eyes…..” It is obvious that local agencies send the same copies of letters on behalf of the ladies according to the rule: the more suckers the more money.
3. Many of these women appeared to be married, which I checked on the site http://www.odnoklassniki.ru/ and http://vk.com,or facebook.com. Believe me, I know Russian and especially http://www.odnoklassniki.ru is a good source of information.
4. Many of these women have children, although you can learn from that their profiles that they are childless. (the sources as above).
5. Many of them are in love and have boyfriends what is visible on their photos . (the source as above).
6. The ID of the women indicates how long she is on the site. The lowest number the longest time e.g. numbers from 1080000 show-five years. From 1740000 are the newest. I do not believe that a girl who looks like a million dollars with an ID number about 1080000 has not been able to find a proper man for five or more years. It is obvious that she works as a bait who attracts enchanted men willing to pay several dollars for every minute of chat or call, and for every picture or video to see.
7. I am a far-sighted man and luckily I have not spent a dollar on a silly conversations stared by a19-year old girl like this “Are you in a good mood today?”, but knowing the opinions about this site I am sure that I would not be talking to just that girl. Even if it was her, it is impossible that such a young girl could have anything in common with a 40 or 50-year-old man except money he will pay for the conversation.
8. Only about 50% of women could have been checked by me by means of their profiles on the social sites, so you can imagine that choosing a lady from this site is like a walk on a thin ice or a mine field. You will never know when you became a victim.
I only hope that my investigation can help some naive men who are under the charm of Ukrainian and Russian women to be more careful with this site.
I do not reckon that all of women are cheaters and scammers. During a year I came across over 200 profiles of my admirers, that have been removed from the site. The ladies may have found their knight on a white horse, or may have given up because of the lack of offers, or may have been forced to resign because their scam was revealed.
But one thing is certain : YOU WILL NEVER KNOW IF THE GIRL IS REAL.