I think of myself as a decent looking person, moderately successful, generally well rounded and funny. In 18 months on Match.com, I met one person. It started off fine and ended abruptly after she asked me questions of how much I made, what I did and what kind of car I drove? WOW. I have sent out over 500 messages and have had maybe 5 people respond. My replies to people were not long, over bearing, pushy, rude or such.
Outside of the people on Match.com having unrealistic expectations, I had a big problem with the massive amount of bogus profiles and scam profiles. I signed up and paid for the service to not have to deal with this.
I wrote to Match.com customer service 3 times about this. There is a note that says Match.com will respond to messages within 24 hours. I have yet to hear back from anyone. Absolutely unacceptable. Poor customer service.
My experience was absolutely terrible and cannot endorse this site in any fashion what so ever. Save your money, time and efforts. Spend the money at a bar and buy a lady a drink. If she says no, you've done better than you'll ever do at Match.com.