Relationship seekers seem to be relying upon online dating websites more today than ever before. Dating online is typically a constant exchange of messages in which each party gets to know one another. While this is a good start to finding a boyfriend/girlfriend, it’s hard to know the person on the other side of the conversation without meeting them in person. It is easier for individuals to portray themselves as someone whom they are not but meeting in person makes it hard to hide behind the computer screen.
HowAboutWe is an internet dating website that focuses on introducing people to one another and facilitating the process of setting up a real date. By removing the constant messaging back and forth over the internet, with someone who you know only by their profile, they have made a step forward to creating a more natural dating progression.
The website name, HowAboutWe, describes exactly how a potential date is found based on the suggestion that comes after the phrase “How About We”. Members of the site fill in the blank with an activity or location for a date and then if anyone is interested they can respond to their date idea.
Members who want to join their site can do so for free; however, they have limited access to the site. As a non-paying member you can search profiles; however you are unable to message them. By upgrading your account, to a paying member status, you can exchange messages and actually make plans to go out. To upgrade your account it costs $8.33/month when you sign up for 12 months, $12.50/month for 6 month, $18.33/month for 3 months and $27.99 for 1 month. If you wish to cancel, your account will remain on their site and you will simply be an “inactive” member.
Even though getting out and going on a date is exciting, it can also be dangerous. Taking the necessary measures to avoid compromising your safety is the most important aspect to consider before meeting. Always meet in a public location and don’t divulge too much personal information on the date. HowAboutWe does not administer background checks; this means you don’t know if the person you are meeting has a clean record.
On the HowAboutWe site there are also numerous articles available as resources to help you through the dating scene. There are many topics to research; newcomers can check out articles to get suggestions for places to go and things to do. As daters get to know one another, they may have more interest in the articles related to the aspect of progressing relationship to a new level.
Most of the members’ complaints pertained to the lack of responses they received; they were mainly men who felt this way. It seems as if there are many more men than women on this site which is the cause of this issue.
There are tons of stories of people who have met their soul mates online, so the potential is there. Ultimately, your outcome depends on your willingness to be open to a new experience. It never hurts to give someone a chance as long as you proceed forward safely.
11 ‘HowAboutWe.com’ Reviews
Bad Business Model and Scammers' Paradise
Zero stars if I could. I paid the one time $96/year to be able to exchange messages. Big mistake. Most dates that are posted are lame, and there are very few active users. If you do happen to get contacted by a user, and if they list their profession as an "Engineer" (or Civil Engineer or Construction Engineer) run - as fast as you can. I was contacted by two scammers that way.
When I deactivated my account about two months after I paid the one year fee, I forfeited what I had paid.
zero ratings if possible. This whole site is a scam from the claims, subscriber database and their business practice. I tried to stop auto renewal but the process deactivated my whole account when I still had 2 months left. You get no refund and if by some chance you wanted to at least use the remaining time- you cant do it. This is online dating at its worse. find a more legitimate dating site. This is pure scam!
No way to rate with 0 stars
Don't waste you money. The concept is there but very few members, even in the LA area. I has so hoping this would be great but it never lived up to the concept.
FREE? Nothing is Free here...
I just found out that even if someone pays the exorbitant prices (with the auto-renew - I call anyone using this practice a scammer!) to send messages, you will only receive it if YOU PAY! I think it should start with apple not letting companies like this join the app store!
They auto-renew without telling you
Height of dishonesty is when you think you are buying just one month but they keep charging your card. I am filing a dispute with credit card company.